{"id":188,"date":"2007-09-20T15:44:17","date_gmt":"2007-09-20T19:44:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/2007\/09\/20\/ill-buy-you-a-pony\/"},"modified":"2007-09-20T15:46:32","modified_gmt":"2007-09-20T19:46:32","slug":"ill-buy-you-a-pony","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/2007\/09\/20\/ill-buy-you-a-pony\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;ll buy you a pony"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every divorced parent&#8217;s nightmare is probably that their child goes for visitation with the other parent and never comes back again.<\/p>\n<p>I never thought it would happen to me.  But it did.<\/p>\n<p>My daughter went for the weekend with her dad, didn&#8217;t go to her aikido class, hasn&#8217;t been to school all week, and didn&#8217;t come home again.<\/p>\n<p>The police say it&#8217;s not a criminal act, to contact my lawyer, to get to court.  If there&#8217;s nothing criminal they don&#8217;t get involved.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot believe that violating a court order is not a criminal act.  Isn&#8217;t this kidnapping?  My middle son cried in bed last night missing his sister.  Thankfully the boys are safe here with me.<\/p>\n<p>The school is recording her absences and will contact the attendance counsellor sooner or later &#8212; but how long does she have to miss school before someone will do something?<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s been served, told to return her immediately&#8230;an urgent motion for civil contempt is being brought before the court&#8230; but still my kid is not at home.<\/p>\n<p>How can he think that this is a responsible parenting choice?  A week of school, sneaking around, hiding at her grandparents&#8217; house?  Is this what he calls good parenting?  <\/p>\n<p>What good is a court order if it cannot be enforced?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m boggled by the system.<\/p>\n<p>It must be some pony.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every divorced parent&#8217;s nightmare is probably that their child goes for visitation with the other parent and never comes back again. I never thought it would happen to me. But it did. My daughter went for the weekend with her dad, didn&#8217;t go to her aikido class, hasn&#8217;t been to school all week, and didn&#8217;t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,15,35,4,12,39,34,37,40,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=188"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.femilicious.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}